forthright
first you are aware of her happiness
and later perhaps of her sadness
first you notice her industry
and later perhaps her independence

first you encounter her accommodation
and later perhaps her rebellion
first you experience her understanding
and later perhaps her provoking

first you are amazed at her confidence
and later perhaps notice her caution
first you appreciate her joy
and later perhaps find yourself laughing

with this daughter of uzume
with this most worthy companion
.
on the leaving of a valued co-worker, whose knowing was a reliable constant, but whose sense of order was too strong for us.

uzume was heaven's forthright female and great persuader. the goddess of joy and happiness, of dance and drum. she provoked the gods to laughter.
hers were the whirling healing waters. hers the new planting. hers the order of heaven on earth. she placed mirrors in the temples.
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