all for a purpose?
in the course of good fortune, we are pleased to be happy
and consider that we are enjoying our due.
how right and how proper it is to be happy -
how good to be blessed, to dance, and to prosper.

in the coming of hardship, we are surprised to be hurt,
and come to feel angry, abandoned, forgotten.
how unfair is our share, and impossible our future -
how painful each day, and how long is each night.

it's often said that all happens, for some destined purpose,
but that seems a curse - an erasing of ourselves.
rather we find in our sadness - when attention is given -
and quite unexpectedly - a lesson, a value, a gift.

no, not all things happen for a purpose -
but yes, purpose can be found in all things.

when things get tough our friiends say everything has a purpose as if that might comfort us.
that hurts and makes us feel vaguely guilty.yet who can discount the lessons of hardship?

snowflake 4 by Kathryn McCallum (lemondrop @ fsxc-hu
 1journey.net     jul 2001 rev jan 2007 elias